Are you familiar with that voice that speaks inside your head, wanting to offer you advice and suggestions for decision-making?
The one that takes over, having you doubt or second-guessing what direction or action to take? Or continues to remind you after a decision was made and it didn’t go as planned with an “I knew it was a bad idea.”
Let me introduce you to your ego, which drives the mind and thrives on fear-based decisions. I like to greet ego/fear with “Hello, FEAR, I see you!” This is the fastest way to begin opening your thoughts to what is causing the fear.
Where does this fear come from?
Your programming! What’s programming?
When you arrive on the planet, you are as pure and innocent as it gets. Your mind is like a new computer with no data except the hard drive ready to receive input. And that it does.
Programming comes from everyone you encounter and the environment you are exposed to.
However, as you grow older, you begin to weigh your thoughts and ideas against others and realize you have an intuitiveness (feeling) that supports your decisions best for you and not what others believe.
The ego often wants to steal the show and remind you what you should or shouldn’t be doing when trying to make the best decision. This is what becomes that inner struggle.
Fortunately, the magic in all of this is AWARENESS. When you can stop in your tracks and say hello to fear/ego, I see you and ask that it please take the back seat, this will allow you to drop out of the mind and into your heart and gut space.
This is where you’ll find the solutions and answers that release the struggle and strife and bring the joy and happiness you desire when making decisions.
You’ll be unstoppable when you learn how to make decisions by quieting your mind and releasing the voice (aka fear/ego) from the conversation in your head and dropping down into the heart and gut. You’ll soon be making decisions without hesitation or regret going from stuck to unstoppable.
So, I challenge you to open your heart and gut and listen for the answers and feedback YOU seek, not what others think!